I'm not sure what to say about what has been going on around here for the past week. So I guess I will just begin the story.....
Last weekend (6/7)We took a trip to the Oregon coast to visit Brandon's grandparents. Saturday morning me, Brandon, my father in law, Brandon's grandpa, Braydon, and Ellie all went out clam digging. We gathered our limit and headed home to do the dirty task of cleaning them.
After they were all clean Brandon's grandpa and the kids went out to the garage to grind the clams up for clam chowder. They were only out there a few minutes and Braydon ran into the house screaming that Ellie got her had cut off in the electric meat grinder.
Brandon and I ran out the door and sure enough there she stood over the meat grinder with no hand. I ran for the phone, Brandon ran for Ellie, and my father in law ran for towels.
The ambulance was there in 5 minutes and she was taken to the hospital where she was later airlifted to Portland Oregon's trauma center.
Brandon and I drove the hour and a half drive there, while The other two kids stayed with Brandon's mom (who was also there at the grandparents house with us)
We were only 30 minutes from the hospital and the airlift gal called to say they had made it there and Ellie wanted to talk to me.
I get on the phone and said, "Hi honey."
First things she says to me is, "Mommy that was so cool, I flew over the trees."
I was chalking it up to the drugs, but the airlift gal said she was like that the entire trip. I about lost it.....she was so brave. She never cried one tear the entire time.
Brandon and I reached the emergency room in Portland in record time. There she was watching Mulan with nurses.
I called Carrie to tell her what had happened. When I told her, it didn't compute. How could it. It still wasn't computing with me. This is something you read about in the news or see in a movie. Nobody gets a hand cut off in a meat grinder.
The surgeon came in to talk to us about what they were going to do. We talked about moving her to Seattle so we could be closer to home. They said they would know more after they looked at it, but that would be the best plan since we live there.
At about 10p.m she was out of surgery and in her room. Still pretty groggy and sleepy, but in good spirits. As we were answering some questions for the 900th time, Carrie walked through the door. "Hi, I'm here for support, if you need me I'm here if not I'll go home."
Remember she was at home in Washington 4 hours ago. She had thrown a few things in a bag, Brett drove her to the airport, and she took a taxi to the hospital to be with us. We were so shocked to see her. It was the best.
The next day the plan was to move Ellie to Seattle via ambulance (about 3 hour drive) Brandon's mom left the coast with the other 2 kids to meet us in Portland and Carrie rode in the ambulance with Ellie to Seattle (Thank you from the bottom of my heart Carrie)
Finally we were in our home state. She was taken in to surgery again so the surgeon team here could assess, clean it again, and get a game plan together as to how to close it.
They put a thing called a wound vac on it. It's a small pump that pulls all of the blood and fluid away from the wound so the dressings don't have to be opened and exposed to infection.
She will be going back in for day surgeries once a week for the next few weeks to clean the wound and to assess tissue (skin) growth. Once there is enough tissue to sew together they will close the wound and she will begin the healing process.
She is in good spirits, up moving around. She went to school on Friday for an hour to see her classmates. She is doing things for herself and learning her "New normal" with one hand.
Things will be better when we can get the wound vac off and she can stop caring around this cumbersome contraption and start using her arm for leverage.
She is an amazing little girl. The things she has endured in her little 8 years, would bring most to their knees. She continues to have a positive attitude an someday will inspire many with her story of bravery.
I will post her progress as we know more, but for now we are home and getting things back to "New Normal"


57 words of wisdom:
Linda,
Ellie is a very brave little girl!! I will keep you and your family in my thoughts and prayers!
Erika/AKA Riky
Oh Linda.. so scary. Ellie is a trooper! Please keep us informed on how you are holding up too--kiddos are so brave and just do not carry the fear we do.
Thinking of you! If you need anything that I can help with please let me know! Also, I know it is the other side of the country, but if some super serious top-knotch hand surgery is needed down the road I will call M's specialist and see if I can get you moved up the waiting ladder (even for another opinion if you need it down the road). I am sure she is getting GREAT care now though!
Our thoughts are with you!
Oh My god, Linda.
I can't imagine what you, she, and the rest of the family went, are going, and have yet to face.
God bless you all, and will pray that you all have the strength you need to face whatever else comes at you during her recuperation.
Oh Linda, I'm so so sorry to hear about sweet Ellie. What a horrible nightmare. Your daughter's bravery is nothing short of amazing. Truly amazing.
I will keep Ellie in my prayers...
Oh my... words escape me on what to say... that little trooper is braver then me... I would be a mess... hugs to you all and I know I can't do much from here but I am here... take care and thinking of you all...
Your post just broke my heart! Poor Ellie. I am sending good thoughts and lots of prayers your way.
Nancye
Linda, I feel like I know your family personally so my heart was literally in my mouth as I read this news. Thank God Ellie is so resilient. Her personality won't minimize the significance of her loss but it'll make a world of difference in how she deals with it and how it affects her happiness. And, of course, that affects how others deal with it.
My heart is heavy and I'm so sorry this happened to your family and, specifically, darling Ellie. Thank you for sharing this with your internet 'family'.
My family will be thinking about all of you as you deal with the physical and emotional adjustments ahead.
With love,
Donna
Wow, there really are no words...Hang in there is about all I can come up with....
She already is our inspiration.
xoxoxo
Auntie Carrie
I am beyond words to express how shocked and horrified and sad I am that this has happened to Ellie... I am crying while typing this... so upset for all of you but especially for your beautiful wee girl. I wish her a speedy recovery and the strength to cope with only one hand. Hang in there Linda, just be there for her and remember to take care of yourself too. I hope the other children are not to traumatised by this as well. *BIG HUGS*
Ellie has endured so much in her sweet little life. She's a strong munchkin. I hope your family is doing well thru this. My heart is with your family, Linda. I'm thinking of Braydon as well. I'm prayiing for your family's recovery.
Karen
Linda, I just read about this on the MSN group...i'm so sorry...Ellie is an amazing resilient little trooper. My thoughts are with you and your family.
Love,
Steph from MSN
Speechless here. Will be praying for Ellie and successful surgeries on her hand.
Linda, I am so sorry to hear about this. Ellie is one strong and brave little girl. Her path to healing will be a true inspiration to all of us. We will be saying prayers for Ellie and for all of you to get through this together.
Susan & Dallas
I will be praying for you all, what a scary thing to have happen.
Oh Linda-I am so sorry. I will keep your family in our thoughts and prayers. Ellie is a brave little girl.
Ellie has already been such an inspiration to so many with her wonderful adjustment as an older adpotee and now she is just simply amazing. I am just blown away by her bravery and her resilency. She will live up to this challenge and her new normal will make the rest of us fell utterly inadequate! She will face the world with that famous smile of hers.
I hope you are taking care of yourself during this time. I know as a mom how trying this can be to you.
Keri
Linda, words fail me. She is amazing and courageous. What a horrible accident. If there is anything you need please let me know. We will be thinking of Ellie and praying for your family.
Linda,
Our thoughts and prayers are with Ellie and all of your family. May she heal quickly.
Scott & Tina Ocheltree
I've come here from Carrie's blog and I am just amazed at what an incredible little girl you have. Your story has brought tears to my eyes and you, Ellie and the rest of your family are in my thoughts...
Ellie, Linda and family: What strength and courage you must have ... the love of family. Our hearts and thoughts are with you. best, kristin (callingmrsd/msn)
I am so sorry, so so sorry that your family and your daughter had to go through such a tramatic experience. I will keep her good health in my prayers tonight.
Here from Carrie's place. i am so, so sorry. what an incredibly brave little girl you have.
Oh my. I'm so sorry the Ellie has to go through this. Our prayers are with you as you adjust to your new normal.
Yes, life can change in a split second, which makes it all the more important to cherish every moment. Hold dear Ellie and Braydon and Lila close. Your love and Ellie's own courage will get you all through this trying time. I'm definitely sending good thoughts your way.
Praying for Ellie and that she heals and recovers quickly....she truly sounds like a brave little girl.
I am stunned and so sorry this happened to you all. I am also so thankful that everyone is going to be okay. Ellie is my hero. I'm not sure I could be that strong if it happened to me.
I saw a post about your sweet Ellie on my friend Karen's Blog.
I will pray for her and for your family.
Popping over from Carrie's blog to let you know that I am praying for Ellie and your family.
Wow! I'm so sorry that this happened to that precious little girl. Many prayers for your family.
Wow! I'm so sorry that this happened to that precious little girl. Many prayers for your family.
o.m.g. I'm sooo sorry about Ellie's hand! That's awful! I'm glad she is in good spirits. Hang in there!
A friend passed your site along to me. I will certainly keep your family and Ellie in my thoughts and prayers.
Kim
Oh my God, I can't believe what I have just read. My heart leapt. Ellie is so very brave. I hope she heals quickly and does not suffer too much longer. How are Braydon and Lila doing?
Hang in there and be strong.
I'll be sending positive thoughts your way.
Isabelle
I am so sorry. Ellie has such beauty about her. I am praying she will get through this with her spirit intact.
Andrea
You are so right, Life does change in the blink of an eye. Ellie has a strong, supportive family and is a very brave little girl. I have every confidence that she will recover and succeed beyond imagination in everything she chooses to do. Ellie, your family, and Grandpa are in our prayers.
I am speechless!! I can't imagine the horror you have been through and I pray for healing and easy adjustments. I have followed sweet Ellie's journey home, have loved her dimples and disposition from afar, and pray that she recovers emotionally and physically from all that she has endured. Blessings to you and your family.
You have been on my mind ever since Carrie told me what happened. I'm so glad that you have each other. With such an amazing team I know Ellie, and all of you, will get through this.
Thinking of you,
Jenny
I have been a lurker for quite some time and love your site. How I wish I could do something for your beautiful daughter and family. Is there any place that we can send gifts/well wishes? Please advise... My heart is with you all
Much love,
Valerie
Linda - I am sending some healing energy your way for your whole family. So sorry this had to happen to your brave little girl.. you are right, in the blink of an eye things change... I hope for speedy healing and for a time when only good things come your way...
Hugs from NY
Missy (Mom to Empress & Emperor)
OMG I am ill. I can't believe this!! OMG I wish I could do something. Send an address so I can at least send her something!!
Linda, I just had dinner with Gen and Lana (they were in town on their way to Guam)- and she told me about Ellie. Oh my. We are praying for you all. And what a gem she is- BRAVE girl. You are amazing Ellie!
LInda - We are SO SORRY to hear about this. So sorry. I pray for her to heal and for all of you to be OK. Lucy
Oh my gosh! It is amazing how things can change in an instant. Best wishes for a healthy recovery. She sounds like a real trooper.
WOW! What a brave 8 year old. I am not so certain my own 8 year old from China would be so brave.
I am praying for a quick recovery. I found your blog from Glenys.
Oh My goodness what a brave girl.
Prayers sent your way.
Heard this threw the grapvine and came over from "When love takes you in".
I saw a post about Ellie in Fliss blog. I am so sorry this has happened. I will keep you all in my prayers. She is so BRAVE. God bless her heart....
I have read and re-read this story about a dozen times. I am so sorry your darling little Ellie (and your family) is going through this. What a nightmare. I am glad Ellie has high spirits and will continue to pray for all of you!
Linda,
We don't know each other, but I found your/Ellie's story through my sister's (K1 in WA) blog.
I cannot imagine going through what your family is dealing with, but I would like to say that you are handling this situation with as much bravery and stoicism as your sweet daughter is. You made a comment about Ellie being so brave -- you, know, she gets that character trait from her mother!
This will never be understandable from a human perspective, it won't make sense until you're in heaven, but I have a feeling your daughter, you and your story will have an incredible impact on people around the globe. Don't know how you'll do it, but I wouldn't be surprised at all that people are touched and moved toward better things because of this accident.
In the meantime, know that there are hundreds or thousands of strangers out here who are praying for Ellie, for you, and for your family to adjust to your "New Normal".
By the way, I had the same wallpaper on my blog for about 6 months -- love it!
God bless you all...
Kelly (aka Truly Blessed)
Oh my goodness! sending you good vibes!
Found your site through Fliss.
What a brave and amazing little girl you have.
Will continue to pray and send out good thoughts for a speedy recovery process.
OH my GOD! I am so sorry that I'm finally reading this and that I'm so late in sending you the biggest virtual hug on the planet. wow. That had to be one of the scariest days of your life. I am so glad she's okay and what a little TROOPER!! That girl is gonna breeze through childbirth one day and say okay when does the pain begin?? And thank the Lord for friends like Carrie. You'd do the same for her. You guys have such an incredible friendship!!! I cannot wait to meet you both.
Hugs for now, love. Martini's soon. xo.
Linda- I am just catching up. Oh my !
My thougths and prayers are with your family.
What a brave little girl! I was directed to your blog in a roundabout way, and know nothing about you and your family. But I was born with hand deformities, and thus have met several people over the years who have had similar accidents to your daughter's. I can't imagine what you are going through right now but, given her response thus far, it sounds like she will come out of this very well.
Warmest wishes~lisa
I could not believe the words as I read them. Such a tragedy! You seem to be holding up very well for the family. Take care; so sorry this happened!
Alyson LID 01/27/06
What a brave girl! Most adults would not fare so well!
This story has truly touched me today. Thank you so much for sharing.
Stephanie
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